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On hosting

The quiet economics of a good dinner

We've hosted, at last count, four hundred and thirty-seven dinners across Delhi and beyond. None of them made any money on the night. All of them, eventually, did.

by Ishaan Malhotra · March 4, 2026 · 6 min

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A dinner is high-bandwidth: four hours of undivided attention you cannot buy with email.

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Introductions are the side effect. The real output is a more accurate map of the market.

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Treat hosting as infrastructure, not marketing — the return arrives late, but it arrives.

On why we keep spending money to feed people who don't need feeding.

We've hosted, at last count, four hundred and thirty-seven dinners across Delhi, Mumbai and Bangalore. None of them made any money on the night. All of them, eventually, did — and that lag between the bill and the return is the whole business, if you squint.

A dinner is, for what it costs, an absurdly high-bandwidth medium. You get four or five hours in a room with people who otherwise wouldn't clear their calendar for you. Nobody's on a screen. Nobody's pitching. Somebody, usually around the third course, says the thing they've been sitting on for six months, and you watch three other people quietly decide to help.

A table in Delhi, laid an hour before anyone arrives.
A table in Delhi, laid an hour before anyone arrives.
The best rooms in Indian business were never advertised. We just built a nicer one.

The mistake most people make with dinners is treating them as marketing. They aren't. They're infrastructure. You are, at some real cost, building a low-friction way for the right people to update each other. The introductions that come out of it are a side effect. The main product is that everyone leaves the table with a slightly more accurate map of what's actually happening.

Which is, in the end, the thing you can't buy anywhere else at any price. So we keep buying the wine.

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